Monday, February 27, 2006

long weekend

felt like a very long weekend. reluctantly went out with the girls friday night in the LES. went to china one and people. made friends with the bar owner at china one- seemed like a cool cat. unfortunately we had to leave on the early side as the bar/restaurant was raided by cops. . ok, slight exaggeration.. more like an "inspection" that ended with them telling the owner that they did not have certification for basement occupancy and made everyone clear out. it was all kind of surreal. the lights came on and the cops were posing for photos with skimpily clad women.

people didn't really strike my fancy. surprising number of asians there. the male:female was kind of overwhelming and i felt bombarded by drunk, asian american men with thick brooklyn accidents. . .like i said, surreal night. happy to leave around 2AM.

saturday consisted of cleaning and a trip to IKEA with nels and george. nels moved the last of his things out and k-flo stopped by with her pops to install a door. i was pretty exhausted, so after grabbing dinner with the boys at Panera and helping to move the cats, i went home and crashed.

spent sunday morning cleaning, organizing, & rearranging my room. too cold to go out, so i mostly chilled at home. did manage to go to tops and buy food to make dinner for the week. i cooked dinner for the new roomie and i- after trying to meet up for the past couple weeks, it was nice to finally sit down and talk.

all in all, an eventful weekend with a lot of changes. . .

Sunday, February 26, 2006

a little laugh to take away your monday blues

a lil short called "yellow fever". . .

http://www.youtube.com/v/5HITeEV8y10

don't know if i agree about everything- i myself prefer less hair on men. . and the majority of my male relatives (including my brother) are asian men that have successfully landed caucasian partners. . . nevertheless. . .an amusing watch.

Friday, February 24, 2006

exploring willie-b

feeling a bit tired/hung-over from last night and obviously struggling to focus on work!

last night was lots of fun. VK and i met up at bozu for dinner.

http://www.nymetro.com/nymag/columns/barbuzz/16003/

have been meaning to try it for some time and was glad i finally had- and it met if not surpassed expectations. it's a japanese restaurant known for their small plates and "sushi bombs" (essentially like sashimi but it's a round ball of rice) and shochu. thumbs up for the decor and ambience: dim (just enough to be flattering and not so much that you can't see your food), romantic, and cozy. all the waitresses and sushi chef were japanese which were good signs.

i ordered the chef's recommended appetizer- salmon sushi topped with sea urchin. . .( sea urchin is hard to get right, it must be very fresh to be good), raw scallop dish marinated in a zesty citrus sauce, and a unagi sushi bomb. paired with some excellent sake and VK's lovely company, i was a very happy woman.

after dinner, we walked over to black betty to have a drink. some joe-shmoe tried to pick up my girl. . .he seemed harmless and wasn't overbearing. . .george and nels eventually showed up just as VK was preparing to head back home. the boys and i stayed for a round and then went to spike and divel across the way. . .interesting place. . great beer selection if you are into beer. . after i could drink no more, we headed out.

tonight am having a late dinner with Q2 at sushi seki. supposed to have phenomenal sushi. . ahh, i can never get enough of the stuff. don't know if i'll have the energy to go out afterwards. . . wouldn't mind just going home and crashing. will be a busy weekend with k-flo moving in.

Thursday, February 23, 2006

celeb spotting and more

goin to break the usual routine to describe my first celeb spotting since movin to nyc.

was standing in line to return some jeans at the levi's store on broadway and spring when i noticed a beautiful, petite young woman talking with the salespeople. she looked a bit timid and shy meanwhile exuding the whole "is anyone looking at me" vibe which made me think it was a celeb. after a couple seconds of staring i realized it was winona ryder - yes- there was even eye contact! sans make up, she is even more gorgeous in person than in the movies. no diva either- the salespeople were raving about how nice and sweet she was. she's one of my favorite actresses so it was a very cool spotting.

in any case, i returned to my mission of finding a pair of skinny jeans and a pair of black jeans. the ones i had ordered online were not the right size. i loaded up on different styles and sizes to figure out what size fits best. i asked a salesperson for help and she directed me to the back of the store where the fitting rooms were. they had a huge contraption- the intellifit- that scans your body and tells you what sizes fit you at their store.

http://www.intellifit.com/Intellifit/Home.aspx

don't know if i find the results credible though. . according to the machine, i was a zero in all the different styles. my first reaction was- wow, that's nice. . . until i realized it is probably vanity sizing and i was sad that levi's has resorted to using that tactic. . i mean, gap/BR/j crew- sure. . but levi's??

finding the silver lining

tuesday morning started off well. went for a nice long run to venice beach and back. spent a little time dishing with eul before getting ready.

but then, started getting annoying texts from D asking me why i wasn't at work. . hell-o! i asked off two weeks ago!! obviously K didn't remember that and was pissed. . wanting to savour the rest of my vacation, i put it out of my mind and finished cleaning up and packing.

AH picked me up and we went to a cute cafe for brunch. as usual the conversation was stimulating. sigh- too little time to really catch up with everyone. . .

in any case, i made my flight on the nick of time and was even able to buy some magazines before boarding. the flight was fine- slept a little, read a little, etc and before i knew it i was back in NY. nels picked me up and after dropping some things off at his new digs and hanging out with his new roommate, we went to the grocery store and he cooked dinner. D had been texting me throughout the day, telling me how upset K was and his accusation that i had made it all up.

that really got me worked up and i was basically ready to quit. tired of the commute, less than great pay, lack of breaks, and K's moods. unfortunately, he beat me to it. as i was checking emails, i saw a short note from him saying he didn't think i was a good match with his business and my last check would be mailed to me. no explanation. no phone call.

it's like a break up. even though you were going to break up with the other person, it sucks to be he one that was dumped. so i've been coolin off for the past day and a half and think i am now sufficiently calm to write him an email back.

on the bright side, i've been meaning to look for a new job after valentines day at a florist closer to home. . . K's email just gave me the little push i needed to keep moving forward in my goals. so today i plan to get myself organized and tonight i'll get some downtime with my girl VK.

Monday, February 20, 2006

chill day

los balcones del peru was incredible!!! the food was amazing and the price was perfect ($15 per head including alcohol and we couldn't even finish everything). started with ceviche and calamari. main dishes included a lightly battered and fried white fish accompanied with mashed rice and beans, beef in a soy sauce/lime marinade, and a mix of seafood in a wonderful sauce.

afterwards, we went temple bar which is normally great for live music. there was a very good R&B group, the lead singer had an amazing voice. unfortunately, i had hoped for something more upbeat to help me fight tiredness (not enough sleep and too much good food). i guess the others felt the same because one by one, everyone but eul and i hung around until after 1pm. finally e picked up up and we met up with conroy and the rest of the latins at a house party. was much better vibe and music.

by 2 something i was exhausted and eul and i headed home. we chatted for awhile and fell asleep. next morning woke up late and went for a run. showered then met up with e for lunch.

drove out to san gabriel to my favorite vietnamese restaurant- my ngoc- and chowed down on delicious & cheap food. hit the spot and reminded me how much the west coast rocks in terms of asian food. after that drove back to venice and went to a cute store i'd run by a couple times "anonymous" for some retail therapy. then we went back to e's and chilled until it was time to meet up with conroy for dinner.

drove out to silverlake area and had a drink at an irish pub then headed to "the kitchen" for dinner. it was great to sit and catch up with conroy. hadn't seen him in a year since he was doing field work and when he got back to LA i had already moved to NYC. after dinner, met up with eul at saints and sinners where i got my 2nd wind and made friends with tenessee & n-fil.

woke up this morning and realized that i had left my long sleeve black shirt at the bar. . . it's getting to be a bad habit.

Saturday, February 18, 2006

the pleasures of LA

landed around 11:15PM and e was there to pick me up. hadn't eaten much besides a small fruit & cheese snack box on the plane ride so e and i headed to father's office to grab a late bite. unfortunately, by the time we got there the kitchen had closed. so we headed to swingers instead where i had a yummy tuna melt and part of e's nachos.

around 2AM got back to e's place and promptly crashed. this morning, woke up to rainy skies (rain in LA!!! the one weekend VK and i visit LA and there's rain!). called eul and she picked me up. . .we sat and talked for 2 hours and the suddenly the clouds parted and it had become a beautiful, warm sunny day. i decided to go for a run and had a great run to venice beach and back aided by a sweet new playlist(thanks nels). while the run on venice blvd was less than inspiring, it was a beautiful thing to walk around the beach a little and see the ocean again.

got back and showered up quickly. called maekre and decided to go to my old digs on sawtelle. i was astounded by the changes. a couple standbys (the sushi restaurant with no name and the red neon "sushi" sign) had closed and some new places had opened. went to hide for a small bite to eat and then did a little browsing at the boutiques there.

now, about to head out to a peruvian restaurant with a big group and go out drinking/dancing after. should be a blast. . .

Friday, February 17, 2006

much needed respite

last night i was at work until close to 8pm. not that late all things considering- it was just a more stressful day than it needed to be. ended up having to cancel my plans with kflo and rescheduling for next week. stopped by the grocery store and went to move my car for street cleaning only to find a parking ticket and no good parking spots.

turns out i had parked next to a fire hydrant but didn't realize it because of the huge mounds of snow on the sidewalks. pretty f-ed up. . but guess that's life. not that i'm bitter or anything but i just have to say that there are far too many fire hydrants in williamsburg!!

got home and had a glass of malbeck trapiche and cooked a simple dinner of pasta with shrimp, sun dried tomatoes, and spinach in a garlicy wine sauce. halfway through packing i took a break to watch the diversity episode of the office (love love that show!) with nels. then resumed packing.

left early to get to work to finish thing up before my trip to hel-lay!! i couldn't sleep that much because of the anticipation. . should be fabulous!

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

valentines day- a success

in total we had over 140 valentines day orders. it was pure madness- the three of us were running around like chickens with our heads cut off. . and as soon as you start getting into a groove with making arrangements, it's time to answer the phone or help a customer. . can i tell you, there is nothing more frustrating than last minute orders, customers that expect you to drop everything and have their order done within - oh let's say, 5 minutes (and had they had some foresight maybe they could have ordered it a couple days ago, hello!), the drivers getting an attitude with you, and people getting mad that their deliveries weren't made by a certain time even though we do not guarantee delivery times.

but somehow we managed to make it through and i was out the door by 7:15pm. not too shabby. best of all- i was able to do some cool arrangements- respite from the standard dozen red roses in a vase.

by the time we were done, i was just ready to go home and have a few drinks. . instead, i was pleasantly surprised to come back to a nice home cooked meal followed by a good laugh from "wedding crashers" (thank you netflix). all in all, a very nice valentines day! Posted by Picasa

Monday, February 13, 2006

valentines day

left for work extra early in case of bad traffic conditions. got to long island around 8:45 a.m. and didn't leave until 10:15p.m. no time for breaks. that's over 13 hours of standing on my feet making flower arrangements, running back and forth to take orders, etc.

most of the orders were generic- dozen red roses in a vase. i lost track of how many i put together. at some point, i went into auto-pilot and was just churning them out. . .but all i can say is if i don't see another red rose for another year, i will be a happy woman!

i feel that long stemmed roses are overrated. . .there are so many more beautiful and exotic flowers. . .

in any case, the most annoying things about working at a florist on valentine's day:

- men that place orders the day of valentine's day

-tacky/boring generic arrangements or overly specific ones (give the floral designer some freedom to work and we will surprise you with a unique arrangement)

-cheesy messages

-walk-in customers that expect you to finish an arrangement in 10 minutes

-customers that are suprised when the cost of roses have doubled (don't blame us, demand is high and supply is limited- wholesale prices have doubled)

ok. enough ranting. i need my rest for valentine's day.

Sunday, February 12, 2006

going out in a blizzard

ladies night out was fun. pinxtos for hands down best tapas where the three of us split two bottles of wine. stopped at sapphire lounge but it was still empty so we went to b.o.b. - still my favorite dance spot. all the girls had a good time. didn't hurt that we got two rounds of drinks on the house.

sat went to work. working hung over is no fun. in any case, with the blizzard and being tired, i wasn't so pumped about going out again. but having already committed to going to see project jenny project jane - i went out anyway. had a surprisingly delicious dinner at the diner with the roommie. tiny place- cozy is a good word to describe it. simple menu but they had a number of specials. we shared an appetizer of crostini topped with olives, garlic, and onions. i had the flank steak with creamy mashed potatoes and the roommie had incredibly tender short ribs.

it was hard to leave the diner and head back into the cold. . but we somehow managed. we arrived at sin-e just in time to catch the show. unfortunately, the crowd was not super receptive and there were some technical difficulties. . .overall, not their best showing, but still fun. afterwards, we met up with ka-ting2 at the lotus for some drinks. by 1:30 i was ready to call it a night. . . fate would not have it.

the roommie and i tried to hail a cab, then catching the train, then hailing a cab, and finally gave up and just started walking to the essex JMZ station. . as luck would have it, we just missed the train to brooklyn and had to wait a good 20 minutes before the next one came. . didn't get home until 3:30, was thoroughly wet, tired, and plum worn out.

needless to say, i will not be going out in a blizzard again any time soon!

Friday, February 10, 2006

headn out

ka-ting2 is in town for the weekend!! going to pintxos and out dancing with the girls. . . i love ladies night out!

am going to bust my butt to get home, change, and meet up with the gals by 8pm.

i am not looking forward to the impending snow storm, will make commuting to my florist job a b**ch. will make visiting my west coast peeps even more delightful!

in any case, i am in good spirits having finally found a new roommate. seems like a great gal.

overall- things are looking on the up and up.

Thursday, February 09, 2006

a heavy morning


Working at the florist this morning when I heard some very sad news that weighed me down. An ex from back in the day emailed me- his brother, only 30 years old, had died. It just puts things in perspective- how life can be so short. I feel sad for him, his family, for a life ended much too early. And I feel helpless that I cannot ease his pain and grief. So this is just a reminder, to myself, and to us all, to cherish those that we love and to express that often. Posted by Picasa

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

a good day of arranging flowers

Some days I feel like I haven't made any progress in learning to arrange flowers. Today was a slow day- the calm before the storm of Valentine's day!! It took me forever to choose a container and which flowers I wanted to use. . .didn't help that we have not been keeping as fully stocked in efforts to make room for roses and other cheesy V-day arrangements.
In any case, once I got started with the moss, all the other pieces feel into place. I was actually satisfied with the arrangements I made. . .it's a good feeling. Posted by Picasa

Sunday, February 05, 2006

for the love of dim sum

had made plans to meet up with friends for dim sum this morning and go watch part of the new years parade in chinatown. the roommie and i decided on to drive my car- i needed to move my car, get gas, and we decided to pick up "the wang". on a whim we decided to take the manhattan bridge into chinatown.

big mistake. BIG.

the bridge was seriously backed up and chinatown was a zoo of people and cars. matters weren't helped by the blocked off roads, chinese people doin the chinese thing and walking out randomly on the street, and having to wait for the parade to go by. it took us an hour and a half to get to the restaurant. by 1:45PM the roommie told the wang and i to go ahead to the restaurant and he would park the car and meet up with us later.

btw we got to the restaurant, everyone else was already seated and eating. although it was a serious pain getting there- the food was incredible (i don't think most people realize that dim sum is great hangover food) and we did get to see the parade.

Friday, February 03, 2006

looking for a roommie

i've been looking for a new roommate for the past month. after my openhouse in january, i thought i would be done. . alas, it didn't work out with the two women that i liked.

seeing as i live in a RR style apartment, it is important to find someone i'm really comfortable and compatible with. . . i've restricted my search to women given that things got a little too comfortable and compatible with my current/last roommie. . .in any case, despite posting an ad for a female roommate i got an email from a male model in his mid-20s. . .kinda fun to imagine the possibilities. . .ha ha.

guess i'll have to keep on keepin on.

TGIF kids!

Thursday, February 02, 2006

character building

ended up going to the wholesaler with my boss today. car rides with him kind of remind me of childhood car rides with my mom where she would use the time -where we had nothing to do but listen to her talk- to lecture us and teach us life lessons.

today's lesson from K was that young women need to build character and find ways to offer something besides their youth and attractiveness. for this reason, he had been encouraging D to do volunteer work in some remote area in asia. we talked about how easy it is for women to get sidetracked from their own personal growth, career path, etc by relationships.

i don't really know if i agree entirely with K. . but there is some truth somewhere in it. i think it is common for young women to romantacize marriage and hope that it will fulfill them in some way. i think that's why couples that marry too young generally have unsuccessful marriages. these individuals have not focused on making themselves a better person and finding what makes them happy. i guess K's point was that we should all try to become a "worthy" mate that can contribute something meaningful to a relationship.

anyways, somehow all this talk reminded me of my dreams of going to vietnam- teaching english or doing some work and living there for a year. . . i've been pushing it away in my mind- but the idea keeps on resurfacing. . . and i never want to look back at my life and regret not having done something. . .so we'll see- keep your fingers crossed for me- and we'll see if i can make it happen.

Wednesday, February 01, 2006

when a bad date just gets worse

went out with D on saturday night in brooklyn. met this guy on sat night- let's just call him numero 5. vietnamese american with a bit of an edge. thought he was interesting and seemed nice. exchanged numbers and talked about getting together for dim sum for chinese new years.

next day i just felt like vegging. . .blame it on going out two nights in a row, being hung over, getting too little sleep, and the winter weather. all i wanted to do was stay under my warm covers, knit, look at the internet, and watch dvd's. numero 5 called in the PM hoping to grab dinner but i wasn't up to it and suggested later in the week. i suppose it should have been a warning sign that he was calling the next day and wanted to hang out so soon after meeting. i mean on one hand it's nice to know that a guy is interested, but somehow it just sort of reeked of desperation. in any case, i was trying to keep an open mind and figured one date couldn't hurt, right?

so we meet up after work on monday in the LES. the bar he recommended was closed so we walked to st. marks and ended up at a thai restaurant i've been meanin to try. date started of nice and normal. talked about our families, life experiences, religion, etc. . .but things definately moved into the weird zone once we went to a nearby sake bar for an after dinner drink. numero 5 went from being laid back and cool to super intense and borderline psycho. after i turned down his suggestion to go to his place (or mine), he started drilling me on whether i was dating someone else, why i wouldn't go home with him, and going on an on about how great he thought i was and how he didn't want to spend anytime apart from me. oh yes, and let's throw in major bouts of jealousy and guilt tripping. for a guy that claims to be happy being alone, he was sure hankering for something serious!

by now, there were major warning bells ringing and i was trying to figure out how to gracefully extricate myself from this awkward predicament. eventually i made it home (ALONE- thank heaven) with the understanding that we wouldn't be seeing one another again. since monday i've gotten three calls and one text from numero five. . .and i just can't seem to understand how any sane person would act that way on a first date!!! i mean, would anyone think this type of behavior is attractive?? ugh.

so- lessons learned:

1. if a guy calls you the day after you first met- just might be a sign of needy/possessive/stalker qualities

2. there are A LOT of freaks out there, especially in new york, so be careful of who you give your number out to

3. go for more neutral ground on a first date and have a backup plan

Sunday, January 29, 2006

Year of the Dog

Spent Saturday morning cleaning the apartment- swept and mopped the floors, cleaned the bathroom, tidied things up. Went for a nice run- the weather has been gorgeous this weekend. Then headed to Chinatown with Q2 and her boy to check out the flower market. I had been looking forward to it all week! There was a tented area set up in a park and a long line to get inside. Following the Chinese way, we cut in line and were in pretty quickly.

There were a lot of different tables set up and people milling around buying pussy willow, ginger, carnations, gladiolas, and curly bamboo. That was the extent of the selection. . .it was kind of a let down. . .oh wait, there were lots of bad silk flowers too. . maybe I've just become a snob about flowers. I had hoped to buy some flowers for the apartment. . but guess it'll have to wait til this week.

Called home this morning to wish my family Chuc Mung Nam Moi! (Happy New Year) and wishes for good health, long life, etc. Turns out the clan took a trip up to NOVA to be with my mom's side of the family. In return, my pops, mom, aunt, and uncle all wished for me to get whatever it is that my heart desires. It was all very sweet and now I'm feeling a tad homesick.

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

how risk averse am i?

given all the drastic changes in my life- it may seem surprising that i would consider myself risk averse. . . but here i am, deciding what to do about my job situation/career. i had started temping at an IR/PR firm that i love. it's a great company, with a lot of growth potential, and the there is a lot of opportunity to move up in the company and possibly travel to china. lots of positives.

yet today i found myself thinking- this is not what i am passionate about. . the whole point of moving to NY was to figure out what i want and pursue my dreams. i think my gut is telling me that a full-time job would just be sidetracking me. . and hey, i'm not getting any younger, right?

so even though money will be tight and it's all kind of risky, i'm just going to go for it.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

evening run

it's been so hard to keep up my workout routine since moving to ny. in LA i worked out 5-6 times a week and was in great shape. . these days, i'm lucky if i get to run twice a week. . .part of it is the weather, going out most evenings, not having a gym membership, and because it gets dark so early in the wintertime.

but tonight i needed a nice hard run. so after getting back from the florist, i suited up in my underamour (great christmas gift!)- the ninja suit i call it because except for the sneakers, it's all black- black hat, black turtleneck, black sweatpants & black gloves. i put on some angry chick music and was off on a brisk pace and ran 6 miles. it felt great to get my endorphins going and my knees weren't bothering me after i was done.

i definately need to make it a more regular habit again. . .

Sunday, January 22, 2006

going out in willie-b

so J & Q2 and i went out last night in my nabe which was great since i haven't really explored the scene here very much. . .we barhopped along bedford and winded up at "the abbey" on driggs. after a few rounds, we were all ready to dance and made our way to "triple crown". . unfortunately, the music was good, but more for freestyling/break-dancing. . we hung out for half an hour or so and went back to "the abbey". while i chatted with the cute bartender, my sidekicks held audience with some random guys.

eventually we headed to a party in bedstuy. it was jammed packed crowded, just way too much pushing required to get from one end of the room to the next. . .my girls weren't feeling the party so we left fairly quickly.

Q2 and i grabbed another drink at "the abbey". .before i knew it, it was after 2 AM and after way too many drinks and cigs (yes, i am a social smoker), i went home. definately feeling it when woke up this morning. . . after downing what must have been a gallon of water, an advil, and going for a nice run, i am feelin sufficiently detoxed. . .some greasy brunch food is the last ingredient in my self-prescribed hangover cure. . .am about to meet my roommate and some friends there in a bit.

am having an open house from 5-7 PM tonight to find a new roommie. i'm not really lookin forward to it. . all the awkward small talk and chit chat. . just hoping to find someone chill, not psycho, responsible, and clean. wish me luck.

Friday, January 20, 2006

weekend outings

last night went to a variety show- mostly to see "project jenny, project jan" a friend of the roomie's perform. . .there were a few comedy acts, some sketches, and a short musical. . . i have not laughed so hard in a long time and it was a great way to start the weekend. jeremy, the singer of the 2 man band, is just mesmerizing to watch!! i've never seen one person command an entire audience like that!! unfortunately, he only performed 3 songs. . .but i plan on going to his full show in february!

btw, you can check out "project jenny, project jan" on the link below!

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=30698035

after the show, a big group of us went to "heathers" in the LES to meet up with A, a cool girl the roomie and i befriended in china this past summer. A is friends with the bartender who hooked us up with some very stiff drinks. . needless to say, after a couple rounds i was very happy. . .the time flew by and the next thing i knew it was 3 AM and i headed home. . woke up a too short 5 hours later to drive to long island for work.

after a nap and curry, i'm getting ready for ladies night out. . going to check out "triple crown" and hopefully dance the night away!

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

pondering "brokeback mountain"

went to see "brokeback mountain" with VK after work today. . .kind of a heavy movie for humpday. . .for those that have yet to see this ang lee masterpiece, i'll try not to give too much away. . .although i thought i was the last to see it.

as of late, i have grown somewhat cynical towards any movies about love, whether they are romantic comedies or dramas about unrequited love. . .certainly, the passionate love shared by Ennis and Jack certainly affected me. just like any other audience member, i wanted them to break out of their loveless marriages and go start their cattle business. at the end, i found myself near tears, trying to make sense out of how senseless their misery was.

after the movie though. . i began to wonder. . would i ever want to be experience such an all-consuming love? yes, the high is such a high, but the lows are so incredibly low. . .i believe i have never experienced such a thing. . .and then, digging deeper, how real is such love? would their love have been so strong had they been able to settle down into marriage like any heterosexual couple, without any stigma or judgement? would that passionate love die down if they actually did spend every day with the other? of course the romance and passion are strong when you only see your partner once every 3 or 4 months. you don't get into the petty arguments. every moment is just bliss and you ignore all the annoying things about the other person and you yourself are on your best behavior because you don't want to spoil the precious few hours you do have. . .

any thoughts?

Monday, January 16, 2006

stressful departure

just got back from taking my friend P to laguardia. . .this morning had been nice and relaxing. grabbed breakfast with P and the roomie, went to the guggenheim for a bit, and walked around the UES.

left the apartment a little after 2pm expecting to have plenty of time to get P to her 4pm flight. unfortunately, the BQE was blocked off. given that my driving in new york has been limited to taking the same route to long island and back, i didn't know an alternate route to get to laguardia. we got off at maurice and stopped at a bp to get directions.

with some consultation from Q2's boy, we managed to get to the airport by 3:10 PM. traffic was attrocious but i managed to not get in an accident and finally, after an hour and a half of stop & go driving, i'm back at home. but now, i'm a bit deflated and just feel like vegging out in front of my laptop. . . turns out the BQE was closed because of an overturned fuel-hauling truck was the reason for my somewhat stressful afternoon.

http://www.nytimes.com/aponline/national/AP-BRF-Tanker-Fire.html?hp

at least no one was hurt and hopefully P made her flight okay and is safely on her way back to NOVA.

Sunday, January 15, 2006

going going gone

has been a busy week of going out and having fun and i think it all caught up to me.

monday-bachelor night
wed-late dinner out with grad school friends
thur-ladies night
fri-roomie's b-day dinner, dancing, & movie

by the time P arrived i was just plum worn out. . she arrived in time to grab brunch at teddy's. after that, we headed to century 21 to do some bargain shopping. being the crazy, shoving, pushing, madhouse of people it is, that really was the final straw.

around 5pm, P and i dragged our tired selves back home to rest. . unfortunately, my planned nap was foiled by phonecalls. . by now, i have a tired headache. . . and no coffee to help it. . .but we met up with Q2 for dinner at ebisu and had some really really fresh and great sushi. with the nasty weather, the desire to go out drinking & dancing was squelched. (read: i. just. couldn't. do. it) instead, we headed back to willie-b, changed into PJ's and chatted. . ahhh. . certainly an even more satisfying ladies night given the circumstances.

it's sunday morning, the ground is dusted with snow and it looks cold out. . but P and i are readying ourselves for a nice, leisurely brunch and see how the day unfolds.

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

3 times a bridesmaid. . .not that i'm counting

the other night, one of my girlfriends called to ask me to be her bridesmaid. it's always an honor so i gushingly accepted. . . so there's a saying that goes "3 times a bridesmaid - never a bride":

1. big sis's wedding

2. mango princess's wedding

3. my girlfriend's wedding next year

unfortunately i'm superstitious. . fortunately, i'm feeling pretty relationship/marriage phobic these days so the idea of not getting married doesn't bother me too much. i have too many girlfriends with relationships that are less than great, have seen too few marriages that are truly happy, and know too many people that wind up settling. i wonder if i'm too much of a romantic and am asking for too much out of marriage. . surely i realize that marriage and love are not perfect and that a relationship is not always going to be exciting, fresh, and wonderful. i am not convinced yet that there are soulmates. . .i just want to find a relationship where i am completely in love with the other person and feel that this is the most amazing man i've met and who has those feelings for me. . .

right now i am young and carefree and am willing to wait for that special connection. . but i worry that i will get tired of waiting, i will become impatient and settle for less. . afterall, no one is an island though and that all people crave companionship at the end of the day. i know that i myself am just learning to be "alone" and truly embrace and enjoy that freedom.

ahh, this is too much serious talk. . . but here's to keeping the romantic in me alive and enjoying myself along the way!

Sunday, January 08, 2006

dim sum

i think i need to brush up my event planning skills. . somehow my group of 10-12 people for dim sum whittled down to 4.

luckily for me, Q2 was willing to pick me up and drive me to C-town otherwise it would have been a party of 3 (multiples of 4 are best for dim sum b/c a lot of the dishes are served with four pieces)! we met up at Golden Bridge on Bowery and i was blown away by how massive the place was. i climbed the stairs to find huge masses of people waiting for their party to be called. the roomie and R were already there and had both managed to get a number in line. after a few minutes, our number was called. we went to the extremely large dining hall and after walking around aimlessly for a bit, a server motioned us to go back to another room. this room, while smaller, was quite large (esp for new york standards) as well. we tried to find a table but found out we were supposed to wait in another line.

we finally were seated and after we ordered a few dishes, VK arrived. the dim sum was quite good but our table did a terrible job pacing. we ordered too many dishes early on and were too full to try the new dishes being carted around towards the end. all in all, i was very satisfied with goldern bridge and will probably take my family the next time they are in town.

after dim sum, R & i walked around C-town so i could do some grocery shopping. i bought lots of produce, some bbq pork buns, dried pork, banh chung, and some canned vegetables. i always get carried away because i never know when i'll be going to C-town again!! then R & i walked back to Q2's apartment, but not before we stopped by donut planet to buy Q2 and her boy some donuts. they drove me home and i've been tidying up and surfing the net since.

one of my best friends - we go WAY back (gildersleeve baby)- is visiting next weekend so the pressure is on to plan a nice weekend of activities and dining venues!!!

Saturday, January 07, 2006

unexpected evening in

got home around 4pm and met two prospective new roommates. . will keep looking.

was supposed to meet up with R & Q2 for dinner tonight. but with the L not running, Q2 being injured from skiing, and it just being too damn cold out, we ended up postponing. so it's 8:24 p.m. and i'm eating leftovers (thanks again, mom) and boiled vegetables with nothing on it (VK would be SO proud).

surprisingly, i am looking forward to an evening of vegging out!! i will finish some proofreading for a friend, shop for my sister's b-day gift online, and catch up on emails. i plan on drawing a hot bath and soaking in the tub for an hour, watching some chick flick and knitting, and falling asleep.

btw, A.H., i guess i found a nice remedy for making myself feel better:)

Friday, January 06, 2006

one of those mornings

so it's not even 9:30 a.m. and i've managed to lock my keys inside the apartment and get bumped and scolded while commuting to work and get into a seriously lousy mood.

sigh.

Thursday, January 05, 2006

celebrating with ceviche and sangria

have been meaning to try lima's ceviche bar

http://www.limastaste.com/

ever since i walked by it in october when meeting up with a friend for dinner in the west village. finally had a chance to go with VK last night. she made reservations at 7pm and usually i get off work at 6pm so it should have been plenty of time.

yesterday was also the scheduled date for my "chat" or salary negotiation with my boss at the PR firm. yep, i've decided to go full-time there starting march. it just seemed like such a cool work environment, interesting job with a lot of mobility and possible travel (to places i like, e.g. china and california), and great opportunity overall. the talk was initially supposed to be on monday but luckily *because i had not prepared enough mentally* it was postponed til wednesday. which was nice since i had a chance to bone up on "tips for salary negotiation" and mean incomes for practicioners in the industry.

the boss wanted to have our talk in the morning, but i did not want to wind up sitting in the same office as her all day long if the talk turned out to be too awkward. so we started talking around 5:30 and didn't finish until 6:30p.m. . . there was actually very little negotiation and it was in fact more a discussion of my position and the company and how i would fit in. in the end, i ended up with a salary i was happy with on the condition that there was room for upward mobility and monetary compensation for it.

i bolted out the door at 6:30 and busted my butt over to ave of the americas and 34th to catch the train down to W4th. i eventually got to the restaurant around 7:15 p.m. VK and i decided to order the ceviche mixto (a mix of shrimp, white fish, mussels and baby octopus in a zesty marinade), ceviche caliente (shrimp and scallops in a bold, slighty spicy sauce over friend yuca), papa rellena (a mound of deep fried mashed potato stuffed with beef, raisins and olives), and cow heart anticucho (which was yes, cow heart). aided with a pitcher of sangria that packed quite a punch and over a surprisingly delicious dinner, we exchanged gifts and caught up in the drama in each other's lives.

by the end of dinner, VK and i were both feeling a little loopy. we meandered back to the subway and chatted up til she had to get off at 14th. . ahh. . good girlfriends really are a blessing!

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

the bachelor is back- and perhaps ladies night too?

so my former roommate, VK, and i used to watch the bachelor religiously. it started as a distraction from studies during graduate school. once VK finished her masters and i got into a more laid back second and third year, we started watching the show together.

it became our ladies night. sometimes i'd have dinner first if VK got off work too late, but there was always some type of wine, cocktails, and snacks.

eventually, we even developed a drinking game where we'd have to drink if a member of the show said certain phrases, e.g.

"he/she is the man/woman of my dreams"

"she's so beautiful"

"she/he is so awesome"

etc etc.

turns out the show is back on and VK are again living in the same city. . perhaps, a return to our monday night ladies night?

http://abc.go.com/fsp/index.html?channel=TheBachelor

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Happy New Year!!!

last night i ended up going to a couple of house parties in green point to commemorate the new year. it was a lot of fun. the roommie and i had a quick dinner of leftovers (thanks mom(s)!) and split a bottle of wine (thanks dad!) before heading over to C & O's for drinks. after a few drinks, we all walked over to George's poker buddy's where the main soiree was.

very cute apartment nicely decorated. as with the whole night, food and bubbly were freely flowing. mostly hung out with the usual crew but got to meet a few of George's poker buddies. turns out there were a number of VA folks who wound up going to UVA together and living in New York. they were a nice group of guys, especially Flowers who was a riot.

before i knew it, everyone in the party started counting down, the ball dropped in Times Square, and i turned to kiss and hug my new friends and acquaintances, i began to reflect on how different my life has become. O had been telling me about a Dominican superstition that whatever you do on New Years is what you'll be doing the rest of the year. then for me, that means that 2006 promises to be a year of many "firsts". quite an exciting prospect.

to my dear friends and readers whom i've been a little homesick for, "Happy New Year" !!!

Thursday, December 29, 2005

some new year's resolutions

on my drive yesterday, i had time to reflect on the past year and all the changes in my life and what may come in the year ahead. in an effort towards self improvement, i came up with a list of goals for myself for 2006. here it goes:

1. learn (begin to, at least) a new language

2. learn how to salsa

3. learn how to swim properly

4. run another marathon

5. travel to someplace new (S. America, Spain, Vietnam?)

some new year's resolutions

on my drive yesterday, i had time to reflect on the past year and all the changes in my life and what may come in the year ahead. in an effort towards self improvement, i came up with a list of goals for myself for 2006. here it goes:

1. learn (begin to, at least) a new language

2. learn how to salsa

3. learn how to swim properly

4. run another marathon

5. travel to someplace new (S. America, Spain, Vietnam?)

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

home sweet home

it's been a long day and i'm about ready to crash. stayed up last last night chatting with the brother-in-law and sis. didn't go to bed until around 2 am and woke up around 7 am.

i hit the road a little after 9am and met cassanova at a cool art museum on the harbor in baltimore around 1 pm. after a nice lunch, but not nearly enough time to catch up, i was back on the road. stopped in newtown to pick up the roommie and rest up for a bit. had a nice home cooked chinese dinner and it was back on the road again. there was a major bottleneck between jersey and n.y. and we spent what felt like eternity waiting to get through the holland tunnel. actually just to get up to it.




we got to new york before 10 pm and i just finished putting everything away. it's funny how i had four days off of work but feel more exhausted than before i left! sorry for the unexciting
post, i'm simply too tired to come up with something more witty. at least i included cool pictures- V-POWER!!!

Monday, December 26, 2005

traveling during the holidays

sat night i was up until 4 a.m. finishing the scarf i was knitting for my mom and packing my things. my flight was at 8 a.m. at laguardia and i called a car service to pick me up at 6. i decided to take a "nap" for an hour and get up around 5 and finish getting ready. of course i passed out and woke up to hear my phone vibrating on the floor. somehow i managed to turn off or not hear my alarm.

i got dressed and ready in 15 mintues and was out of the apartment by 6:05. i got to laguardia in about 15-20 minutes and was able to check in fairly quickly. just as i was starting to relax and feel i had plenty of time to buy some magazines and a i heart NY shirt for my niece, i saw the line to go through security to get to the gates. it snaked all around the entrance waiting area and outside.

luckily i had over an hour before my flight and got through with twenty minutes to spare. a little after 8, i boarded the plane only to end up sitting on the runway for two hours. the time passed by quickly as i slept straight through the waiting period and the flight.

the rest of the evening was typical for any holiday. lazying around, eating too much, and watching t.v. ahhh, bliss. . .

Sunday, December 25, 2005

Merry Christmas!

in the middle of last minute packing. mariah carey's "all i want for christmas is you" playing the background.

i'm exhausted but the idea of seeing my precious nephew and niece, the rest of the clan, and a couple old friends is keeping me going. need to finish my mom's christmas present, wrap it, put together a little presentation, and maybe get a few hours of sleep. . i'm going to be plum worn out tomorrow.

last night Q2 and i took jpan out to dinner at the spice market and out dancing at b.o.b. afterwards. it's been a long time since i've enjoyed a girls night out but we had much to celebrate- namely, jpan's engagement. dinner was delicious (although i'm not sure if it lives up to the hype). we shared spicy chicken samosas (yum), a crab noodle salad (so-so), very spicey (read: lots of kim chi) striped sea bass, the most tender spareribs, coconut sticky rice and a very good pinot noir. the restaurant's decor was amazing, very south-east asian.

b.o.b. was great as usual. fabulous music and low-key. it wasn't too busy so we were able to sit and to dance without fighting for elbow room. we all got hit on. . i guess that's what happens when girls go out by themselves. Q2 by a vegan personal trainer. me by an electrician that lives in brooklyn and is from st.croix. jpan by his cousin. . . luckily they weren't pushy, just friendly and making conversation.

the girls crashed at my place and we didn't go to sleep until around 2am. then i woke up around 6:30 to go to work since i had to take public transport (the roomie took the car back to philly). worked from 9:30-2:30. got home and took a short nap and got cleaned up and met R & Q2 for a hearty korean dinner at hanbat. excellent pajun despite having a different consistency/texture than what i'm used to.

anyways, i hope everyone is spending the holidays with loved ones and getting some much needed R&R!

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

the kindness of strangers

this morning i was prepared to walk in the bitter cold, over the williamsburg bridge, and attempt to grab a cab once i got to manhattan in order to come into work. i bundled up in layers of clothes and with ipod and new camera in hand, i was out the door.

as i was walking along bedford ave, a woman in a SUV called out to me:

Woman 1: Are you going to Manhattan?

V: Yes

Woman 1: Do you want a ride?

V: Yes!! Thanks so much.

There were two other women in the backseat so I got into the passenger's seat in the front. They all introduced themselves. At first I thought they all knew one another, but after a few minutes of comfortable but superficial conversation I realized we were all strangers. We made small talk about the strike, when it would end, what we all did yesterday in terms of work, etc.
The driver was going to the upper east side, Park and the 50's. The other girls were dropped off on the other side of the Williamsburg bridge and around E 14th & 1st Ave. I was the last drop off and got off at 33rd and walked a few blocks over to Park. So, what I expected to be an hour and a half commute turned into a 45 minute commute.

I was lucky. Another girl that works in the office who lives in Long Island said that it took her over three hours to get home. She was waiting outside Penn Station for an hour and a half just fighting the crowds to get to the LIRR. Guess it's the whole survival instinct surfacing.

Now, I just need to figure out how I'm going to get home. . .

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Strike Halts New York Subways and Buses

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/12/20/nyregion/nyregionspecial3/20cnd-strike.html?hp&ex=1135141200&en=76117d48a59c9e0c&ei=5094&partner=homepage

i guess it's strategic on behalf of the union to strike one week before christmas when everyone would be doing their last minute holiday shopping.

personally i'm not pro- or anti-union but in this case (not because i'm feeling incovenienced) i feel that the union's demands are quite unreasonable. essentially it seems as they want a cut of the momentary surplus that the MTA finds itself with. what they are asking are for permanent increases in wages and improvements in their health care. commonsense will tell you that this will leave the MTA in serious future debt as this year's surplus is transient and is most likely not recurring.

ironically, i think everyone will lose out with the strike. the loss of tax revenue, cost of increased police patrol, loss revenue to businesses, etc will surely outweigh the MTA's surplus. happy holidays, huh?

Monday, December 19, 2005

a little bit of justice

the guy that stole money from D's parents was arrested. the kid was 20 something years old and within a very short amount of time spent 10 G. turns out he had overheard the parents talking about the money that was in the moving truck. luckily or unluckily for the family, by starting the fire to cover his tracks, the kid left enough evidence to lead to his arrest.

the insurance company will cover up to 100G in damages. sadly, there's no way of recovering what was lost- D's mom's wedding dress, photo albums, etc.

Sunday, December 18, 2005

chance meeting

saturday night i found myself waiting for the 1 bronx bound train to go to riverdale. yes, the bronx. over an hour commute from my place. however, it was my turn to visit my middle school friend MF since he's come to williamsburg or met up with me halfway every time we've hung out. plus, he was cooking dinner for me.

i came prepared for the long commute and had my ipod blaring and knitting needles and yarn. before i could knit my first stich, i hear a deep voice yell/ask "V"? i looked up and saw a familiar, slightly aged face that i haven't seen in 6-7 years.

"W?"- i respond. we hugged and spent the trainride catching up on gossip and our lives. we had met in beijing when i was studying abroad there. he had dated a friend of mind and i had dated someone from his school. half british/half american- he ended up back in new york where his mom's side of the family lived. since beijing, he had completed a masters in england and worked at columbia for a while and is now looking for work and planning on pursuing a law degree in the states. he had just moved to riverdale and is living with his girlfriend. i gave him a very shortened version of my saga. it would be nice to expand my social circle and make new friends so i hope we do actually hang out in the future and it's not just one of those polite these you say to someone that you haven't seen in a long time.

these chance meetings with old friends/acquaintances always reminds me how small the world really is. . .

Saturday, December 17, 2005

starting new friendships as a single woman

it's always tricky starting new friendships with guys, especially when you are currently unattached. . . maybe it's the prudish side of me or something. my parents' reminder for me to act dang wang or proper. this is especially true in front of people of the opposite sex. this means- no flirting, talking or laughing too loudly, touching inappropriately, and heaven forbid- drinking more than one alcoholic drink in public!

perhaps this is why i've always been a bit cautious with how i act with guy friends. at least in the beginning of a friendship and particularly if i suspect that a guy might be interested in more than friendship (and i'm not feeling the same way). so while i'm generally an affectionate person, i always try to maintain distance and minimize physical contact until i'm sure the friendship is solid.

you might think this is silly. . .but i've learned from experience. in college i made the mistake of being friendly to a guy that i thought was just a friend. then it got messy because he was interested in more and i wasn't.

so i found myself in one of these beginning stages of a new friendship with a guy and in an awkward moment. we decided to meet up for drinks. as usual, the conversation was nice and i found myself having a good time. we closed the place down and as we said goodbye, there was a slight awkward pause where had it been a date, you would hug or kiss. luckily there was enough distance between us that it would have been too obvious had he made a move.

in retrospect- i wonder if i'm being slightly paranoid/neurotic. i've been in one serious relationship after another for the past 10 years and now as a young, single woman i am finding myself in a lot of new situations. i'm comin to the realization that i am woefully inexperienced with handling weird "dating" situations, flirtatious encounters, and relationships with men. i have a feeling it's going to be an interesting 2006. . .

Friday, December 16, 2005

tragedy

looks like i didn't get my day of R&R like i had hoped yesterday. under the circumstances, i hardly have reason to complain. around 11am my long island boss called to ask if i could work in the afternoon. D had taken the morning off thursday so she could help her parents move (they were moving from long island to new jersey). somehow, the moving van which contained all their possessions was burned in a fire.

it's all pretty shady. somehow the movers had packed one of the drawers up that had around 20G in it. D's mom realized it too late and mentioned this in front of the driver. coincidentally, that same drawer was not damaged in the fire and the money was missing.

of course, D couldn't work because there were fire marshals and police there investigating the scene. looks like i may be helping her sift through all the rubble and see what may be salvageable this weekend. i think her parents are in shell shock. i would be too, to lose everything. i can't imagine, things that you've had for years and with so many memories. my prayers really go out to her family at this time.

Thursday, December 15, 2005

the little differences

living in LA in no way prepared me for life in new york. while LA certainly qualifies as a big city, is is much more like a huge suburb than anything else. you drive everywhere- to the grocery store, to the bank, to the post office, to one end of the parking lot to the other (just kidding, sort of). because space is not at such a premium, and especially as a grad student, you stock up on things out of convenience. target & costco were king and at any given time i would have X number of paper towels, Y boxes of ziplock bags, and Z rolls of TP.

so i've adapted. (my roommate looked at me like i was crazy when i loaded up the cart with various paper products when we went to target for the first time) i only get items i need for that night or week from the grocery store, i no longer stock up on toiletries, and my fridge actually gets empty.

now with the winter settling in, running errands is unpleasant. luckily, everything in new york- and the US in general- has been evolving to deal with that. you can get groceries or any type of take out delivered to you at any time of day. there are laundromats that you can drop off and pick up your laundry. (my friend's cleaner in the bronx actually picks up his laundry and returns it to his address) it's quite amazing. . so today while i'm recovering from my cold, i will stay inside. watch "city of god" which i got in the mail via Netflix (love them!), do my christmas shopping online, and catch up on various projects i have going on the side.

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

psycho-analysis at work

my boss is a character. usually he listens as D and i chat away about boys, life, etc. occasionally, he likes to say outrageous things and waits for our response.

example 1. v will be a mean step mother.

example 2. d will become a bitter woman and be an even meaner step mother than v.

of course these statements require a lot of assumptions. namely that i will get married, have children, and my children will be married. there are generally no explanations for his predictions, just a laugh and twinkle in his eye.

tuesday morning when we were all busy with various tasks: cleaning flowers, arranging flowers, and putting together fruit baskets, the boss actually made quite an insightful statement. my co-worker D is a wonderful girl. laid back, out-going, cute, and generous. despite her many wonderful qualities, she always ends up with guys that are jerks or don't treat her well.

for instance, D had gone out this past weekend with some guys, one of which was married. although she made it clear to him that they were only friends, the guy ended up getting angry that she wasn't giving him enough attention and winded up leaving her at some random bar in manattan during the wee hours of the morning. clearly, a d**k move.

the boss's observation was that D somehow gave men the impression that she is a casual, fun girl and that's why they don't take her seriously or treat her better. that leads me to the question, what makes one girl seem like a serious girl and another like a fun girl? is this the equivalent to guys being "just friends" material or "more than friends" material? another interesting comment raised by the boss is that women are silly by making such a clear distinction between friendship and boy/girlfriend relationships. he says that for men, those relationships are not two distinct points but lie on a continuum. hmm, still mulling over it. . .

Sunday, December 11, 2005

one of those days

ended up going out last night afterall. anthropology christmas party with the roomie. was fun & mellow. only bump in the evening was trying to find the place! it was in the stuversant apartments.

this morning got a late start. had brunch with the roomie at the williamsburg cafe. i've been meaning to try the place as it has good reviews on citysearch. was pleased with the brunch (esp the free bloody mary's!). i ordered cheese grits with chicken sausage, bacon, and hashbrowns. the hashbrowns were very fine but quite tasty. the bacon was perfectly cooked, packing a good crunch without being burnt! and how can cheese grits ever be bad? it was so rich i was only able to eat half, if that much!

then i was off to get my haircut in manhattan. a great place called the little hair shoppe. unfortunately it was a slightly rushed job. the earlier appointment ran over and i was supposed to meet Q2 at 4pm to see memoirs of a geisha. . only after rushing out of the salon at quarter til, i got the text from Q2 saying the 4pm showing was sold out and she got tix for the 6:40pm showing instead. . . i didn't really feel like staying out too late so i decided to go see the movie another night.

on my way to the subway, i decided to go to chinatown to do some grocery store shopping. got some baby bok choy, ginger, garlic, green onions, & asian pears. i walked into a vietnamese grocery store hoping to stock up on some frozen dumplings and canned goods but found out they only take cash and i was down to about $5. so instead i picked up a packet of chinese sausage and dried pork and headed home.

unfortunaetly, i wasn't paying attention and missed my stop a couple times. by the time i was home, i was cold, my feet hurt (breaking in my new boots), and my nose was running like crazy. . not a pretty sight. i spent the rest of the night cleaning up the apartment and knitting.

this next week promises to be busy. a close girl friend is visiting her family in long island so we're doing the sleepover thing tomorrow, wed dinner in UES, thur dinner in Willie-B or LES, sat dinner in UWS, and sunday hopefully will be dim sum. . lots of good eating. can't wait til i get over this cold, will (hopefully) start running again no matter how early i have to get up to do it or how cold it is.

Saturday, December 10, 2005

recent work

a few arrangements i've worked on the past couple weeks.




recent work

view outside

brrr. it's cold out. coming down with something. thing i'll stay in tonight. again.


view outside

Friday, December 09, 2005

girls night out

went to chibitini in the LES with VK last night. we made sure to get there for the happy hour- 2 for 1 cocktails. it is a tiny place, very quaint and there is a little, friendly pug-nosed dog that runs around. the entire night (we were the first and last customers to leave), there were only three parties! don't know how the place manages to stay open.

we ordered a bunch of appetizers and dumplings and had a couple cocktails each. the chibitini is suprisingly, deceptively strong. (read: i fell asleep with my light on last night and am not feeling so hot this morning) overall, the restaurant was fun and the food was good. my complaint is that we were overcharged for drinks.

towards the end of our meal- one of the other customers started talking to us. i guess he just moved to rivington from canal street. friendly guy. seems well traveled. just grabbing a quick meal before his blind date set up by a friend. the whole dating thing seems strange. especially in new york where you would expect it would be easy to meet people but it's just like any other city where everyone is doing there own thing and stuck in a the same old social circles.

there are so many events that are catered to people just trying to connect with another person. speed dating, wine tasting for singles, online dating, match.com, etc etc. it just seems a bit too coerced. then again, i've been lucky and have been able to meet people in school/academic settings which is a bit easier. . you already have a lot of information about the other person and there are more opportunities to hang out. i guess this is what all my formerly single girlfriends were complaining about post-college!

Thursday, December 08, 2005

new temp job

last week i started working at a start-up PR firm. it's been pretty interesting although i've been mostly doing administrative stuff. there are only 3 full-time employees at the ny branch, the president of the company, the director, and a senior account exec. there is also a california and two china branches. half of the company's clients are chinese firms and the rest are american firms.

the president started the company after her previous firm got bought out. although the company is less than a year old, it seems quite promising. they have some big name clients and seem to be growing quite a bit. right now they are subleasing space in a recruiting office which makes for an interesting set-up. i share an office with the president. . which has its perks (window view, big office) and downsides (i share an office with the president and can't really take a break). thank goodness they will be moving offices in march!

there is potential for a permanent position and expanding more into managing accounts. i'm not sure if that's the path i want to go. but luckily the president is fine with giving me time to decide what i want to do and also with seeing how the company grows and their needs change.

there was a period in college when i was interested in PR jobs so it's great being able to try it out and see if i actually like it.

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

work is wearing me out

my posts have gotten less and less frequent. . . will make amends to be better about updating.

working 2 part-time jobs is wearing me out. . don't know how my friend/co-worker at the flower shop manages to work every day of the week!!! by the time i get home, all i have energy to do is eat and curl into bed!!

that's exactly what i did monday night. i had woken up early to move the car before street cleaning and drive to long island for work. i got up around 6:30 a.m. at work i was clumsier than usual, probably lack of coffee didn't help. i really need to get a travel mug so i can get my two doses of caffeine in! in any case, i went to bed at 10 pm. i can't remember the last time i've been to bed so early.

tuesday i was worried about the snow. so i left for work very early. too early it seems. . the snow that promised to be 6 inches and leave the roads slippery and treacherous was more like a light dusting. . in any case, i got to work an hour and a half early and used the time to make phone calls and knit.

last night i spent a good part of the evening putting up framed pictures that i got from IKEA (the frames not the pics). my room is almost complete. . i'll take photos soon and post. the roomie's room is looking much homier now too.

ok, it's 9am i should start working. post more later.

Monday, December 05, 2005

Cooking Club

Ever since moving to New York, I had planned on starting a cooking club. After feeling a bit more settled, I decided to make a go of it and sent an email out to all my old friends and a handful of new ones that live in the New York vicinity.

The premise of the club sounded simple. Ideally, a group of 8-10 of us would meet once a month. A different host would be selected for every month and the cooking club would meet at that host’s apartment. The host is responsible for coming up with a theme, find recipes, and setting up and cleaning up after the event. Everyone else cooks and buys ingredients.

Responses trickled in slowly, but a few days before the first meeting, it seemed as though there would be a good group of 8-9 people. As host of the first cooking club meeting, I decided to go for a Latin American theme- Peruvian ceviche, Argentinian empanadas, Leche Asada, and mojitos.

As the day wore on, and battling exhaustion (my fault, I stayed out drinking with friends til 2:30 a.m.) and frustration at work, my excitement about the cooking club began to wear thin. Also, four people backed out at the last minute and there were two unexpected (but welcome) arrivals, and two unexpected (not so welcome) guests came. Of course I was panicking because there would be less food. On my way home I stopped to buy ingredients for mojitos and picked up some Mexican pastries, chips, and salsa.

Of course in the end it worked out. Somehow there was just enough food for everyone to eat. The empanadas were delicious and I plan to try some variations on it with different fillings. Everyone seemed to have a good time, but it felt much more like any other party rather than a cooking club. Guess I’ll have to re-think the design, maybe fewer people and closer friends?

Monday, November 28, 2005

christmas decorating

Today the boss put me in charge of re-decorating the store for Christmas. So essentially, D and I spent the entire day cleaning, reorganizing, and decorating the store window. We ransacked the boxes and boxes of Christmas decorations, ribbons, greenery, and etc leftover from the previous owner. After wading through some truly terrible stuff, we were able to scrounge up some nice wreaths, ornaments, berries, etc and began to make some decorations from scratch.
It was basically a craft day and tons of fun! So of course the day just flew by. I guess the couple days following Thanksgiving are slow so the boss let us decorate to our hearts delight. There’s still some finishing touches left, putting the lights up, etc, but I must say the store window looks quite nice.

After a nice meal of leftovers (ahh, great thing about Turkey Day), finding a restaurant to go to Wednesday night with a college friend, and cleaning up the kitchen, I’m about ready to crash!! I still have some emails (A.H., wonderful to hear from you and I miss you too- expect a nice long email your way!) and internet research to do, but it’ll have to wait until tomorrow night or Wed when I'm better rested.

Another Lazy Sunday

After the group dispersed, I cleaned up and started to watch “Saving Face”. A movie about an Asian American doctor who lives in New York and hides the fact that she is a lesbian from her mother. Her mother, played by a still beautiful Joan Chen, becomes pregnant out of wedlock and therefore a disgrace to her father. She moved in with her daughter who has recently become involved with a ballet/modern dancer. Despite being a very good movie, and probably aided by the mulled wine, I fell asleep midway through.

I woke up this morning around 10 and finished watching it. Then I picked up my laundry, moved the roomie’s car to the other side of the street, and spent some time putting clothes away and organizing. I went for a run at McCarren park and by the time I was done it was already close to 3 p.m. My plans to go to the NY Public Library out the window, I decided to call up a friend to catch a movie.

We met up around 5pm and walked around Times Square, Bryant Park, etc. Stopped and bought a sandwich for the friend at Kosher Delight where I got an unexpected phone call from a friend. Turns out JPan is engaged!!!! I have never heard her sound so happy and excited!! Which makes me happy and excited! Congratulations Xiao Pang and JPan!!!

Sunday, November 27, 2005

A Smok’n Thanksgiving Pot-luck

So my new resolution is to make sure I buy groceries for a dinner party in advance!! I have never felt so flustered when preparing for a party. . .

I had originally planned to head back to Brooklyn on Friday morning after doing laundry. . .but being in the suburbs in a spacious home, comfy sofas, and hundreds of channels on t.v. sidetracked me. The roomie and I spent the better part of the morning finishing laundry and decided to try Geno’s cheesesteaks and hit up IKEA.

Sidenote: It really is a toss up between Pat’s and Geno’s as far as who has the best cheese steaks. The meat is in slices rather than shredded at Geno’s and the bread is better, but my provolone wasn’t fully melted, the onions were undercooked, and the cheese fries were not as good (although still quite good). To top it off, I overdid it with the hot sauce (which is the best hot sauce I’ve had, quite spicy and flavorful and packs a punch) so I couldn’t get a real taste of the meat.

In any case, I didn’t get back to Manhattan until around 9:30 p.m. and I was just too tired/lazy to go to Whole Foods. I woke up early and was at Whole Foods by 10 a.m. I was put in a state of mild panic when I found that they were out of oysters and duck breasts. So after getting some wild mushrooms and chives from the farmer’s market at Union Square, I high tailed it to Dean & Deluca’s. I talked to the guy working the seafood counter (great South African accent), and he told me that they had gone through bottles and bottles of shucked oysters but they were all sold out. After a bit of negotiating, he offered to shuck a little under a pound of oysters for me but it would take a couple of hours. I looked at my watch and it was already 11 a.m. and the dinner party was supposed to start at 5pm. Guessing that the situation would be the same at other grocery stores, I agreed. Luckily, they had the duck breasts too and I was able to get the majority of the other ingredients there.

I was out the door around 1pm and stopped at a local deli-mart to get flowers, a loaf of bread, before hitting the wine shop for a bottle of cooking wine and burgundy for mulled wine. I awkwardly lugged up my bulky bags up four flights of stairs and was in my apartment cooking by 1:30. As I was frantically chopping vegetables and preparing ingredients, I glanced at the clock and began to worry that I would not be finished cooking and tidying up the apartment by 5pm.

I called Q2 and pondered about whether I should postpone the pot-luck until 6pm. . She reasoned that most people would be late and no one would mind if things didn’t start on time. By 4 pm, I was in a groove and had time to clean up the apartment and myself.

There was a slight miscalculation with the duck recipe. I had doubled the recipe and the cooking time suggested was clearly not long enough (8 minutes on the stove was supposed to get the duck medium rare but it looked rare to me). Following the recipe, I put the sautéed mushrooms in a large dish and cut the duck in slices and placed it on top. Then I put the plate in the oven so the duck could cook some more. . unfortunately, fat drippings from the duck flowed down to the bottom of the oven and the entire apartment got smoky. Luckily Chan came to the rescue and cleaned it up and we opened up all the windows to air out the apartment.

Despite not being ready quite on time, the oyster leek stuffing and duck with wild mushrooms in a fig-red wine reduction came out okay (slightly overdone perhaps, but it’s my first time cooking duck), and the mulled wine was a hit with both the ladies and men.

After several rounds of mafia/cops/civilians we all called it a drunken night. As usual, a great low-key evening (except for self-inflicted stress). . .but I learned my lesson and will make sure to have all the ingredients bought in advance!

Sunday, November 20, 2005

Lazy Sunday

The party wiped me out. I didn’t get back home until 3:30 a.m. and slept until noon!! For those that know me well, that is pretty unheard of!

Roomie and I went to Teddy’s for brunch and then RMA, a Buddhist art museum around Chelsea. The presentation was excellent and the art work was quite amazing. The museum was also pretty interactive with thorough descriptions and live music. Quite nice and I think I’ll start making a bigger effort to visit the art galleries, museums, and performances that NYC has to offer.

After debating what we were going to do for dinner- usual conversation goes something like this:

Roomie: Do you want to cook, or eat out?

Me: I don’t care either way. What do you want to do?

Roomie: I don’t know. Where would you want to eat out if we eat out?

Me: I’m craving Asian. What about dumplings or something?

Roomie: You always crave Asian- sushi, Vietnamese, Chinese- It is probably cheaper to eat in.

Me: Well, let’s eat in then. We should probably have to go to the grocery store then.

Roomie: What are we going to make?

Me: I have to think about it. There’s frozen chicken and fish but we probably have to stop and buy some more things.

Roomie: Do you want to eat out or make something at home?

Me: I don’t’ care.

So after circling around the issue for a few minutes, we decided to go to Planet Thai since I’d never been there and just feeling to lazy to cook (yes, it happens from time to time). I had the spicy noodles, not bad, but probably not as good as the Sea’s drunken noodles. In any case, I’m glad I finally had the chance to go and see how it compared.

Saturday, November 19, 2005

One Hour Commute- Woo Hoo!!!

My roomie let me borrow his car to drive to Huntington today for work. . .I was nervous about driving in New York but since I wasn’t driving in the city and it was all mostly highway driving and suburbs so it was completely manageable. It took me just under an hour to get there!!! Far better than the usual 2.5 hours it takes me through mass transit. . of course, traffic was less congested since it was a weekend.

I was in much better spirits and much less tired by the end of the workday. Work was slow so I ended up washing buckets and sweeping a lot. Pretty uneventful.

I got home from work around 4pm and lazed around a bit before cooking dinner. Around 8pm I headed out to meet some friends to go to a party in the Upper West Side. We stopped for a couple drinks at the Dive Bar (I thought it was kind of amusing that the name of the restaurant was actually called “dive bar” but I guess there was some sort of nautical theme going on. The party was fun. The crowd was mostly anthropologists (99.99%) but luckily I knew a few people there already and so I wasn’t too far out of my element. I guess at the end of the day, once everyone starts drinking, it doesn’t matter too much.

Blistering Cold

Today I temped at Marie Claire. The work was pretty mindless- as temp work seems to go- but it was fun just being able to work at a fashion magazine. Not surprisingly the majority of the staff was female, casually dressed in jeans and cute tops. Essentially my job was to prepare the December magazine mailings to Marie Claire’s agents and clients. This means I went through and bookmarked all the ads for each client/agent. Pretty time consuming, but a smart business-sales move.

After work, I went back to Willie-B to get dressed up for dinner. Q2 and some friends and I were meeting up at the Bridge Café at the South Street Seaport for dinner. I took the train to the Brooklyn Bridge stop. Unfortunately, I had decided to wear a cute dress and heels. . but the walk was long and bitterly cold and by the end of the 45 minutes it took me (very high heels, I might add) to get to the restaurant, I was cursing up a storm and angry at myself.

But once I got inside the restaurant, had a drink to warm me up, and was in the company of good friends I was fine. I can already tell though that it’s going to take a lot of willpower to get myself to go out when the weather gets even colder!

Thursday, November 17, 2005

day off

Haven’t heard from the temp agency so it looks like I’ll have another day off. . not that I mind. Yesterday I was able to go for a nice 5 mile run and enjoy the weather! Went to C-town with Mikey and got some groceries and just hung out.

I’m cooking dinner for a couple of friends tonight. I had four different menus planned out and had to get VK (and the grocery store’s selection) narrow things down for me a bit. . I’ll be making:

Spinach and pear salad

Mussels and Shallots in a White Wine Sauce

Garlic Fries

Grilled Asparagus in a Balsamic Sauce
I’m always a little nervous cooking for someone for the first time so I like to make at least one dish that I’ve prepared before. Since I normally don’t cook elaborate meals for myself, this makes the rate of trying new recipes a little slow. . Luckily, Thanksgiving is around the corner so I’ll have a chance to experiment a little more!

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

*this* close to quitting

i had a bad day at work yesterday. very bad. when i walked into the florist, i immediately sensed that something was wrong. then D pulled me to the side and whispered that the store manager had been fired that morning. as my boss re-told the story an hour later, the store manager – A - had an attitude problem so he had told her to take a month off and he’d probably re-hire her then.

mondays are normally busy days because that’s when the big flower orders are delivered. on top of that, there were quite a few orders and funeral arrangements. . without the store manager, the most experienced/talented/capable floral designer at the florist, it made for a very busy day. in the end, the owner ended up rolling up his sleeves and doing his share of the arranging and he was able to get another floral designer to come in after hours to take care of the more elaborate funeral arrangements.

during the day, more of the details of A’s firing came out. i guess A was going through a tough break up and was allowing that to affect her performance at work. moreover she was slacking on the job. the owner thought A had poor work ethics, treated the driver badly, and had a dark side. turns out the owner had planned on hiring another part-timer to help during the holiday seasons and to work on saturdays. . somehow it was believed that A had told the woman that there was no need for her to come in afterall.

D and i were on edge the entire day. . trying not to be too loud or annoy the owner too much. to top off all that mess, when i got to the train station, i found out that all trains headed east and westbound to penn station were not working because there were fires. . around 8:30 p.m. the trains were working again and i was able to catch a train around 9:33 and get back home around 11:30.

i guess this is the first time in my life where i have not had a car and had to rely on public transportation. . and i found myself really disliking the feeling of having to rely on other people for help. . .in any case, during my wait for the train and on that train ride home, i was really hating the commute from brooklyn to long island and thinking of quitting and finding a florist closer to home to work at.

but after getting some rest and realizing that i am learning a lot and i like the work environment and the owner’s work philosophy and vision, i decided to wait things out. doesn’t mean i won’t keep my eyes open for other positions though. . .

Friday, November 11, 2005

Dumplings and Data Work

Just got back from having dumplings with R in C-town followed by delicious tiramisu in Little Italy . . . can I say again just how much I love NYC? Anyways, the Shanghainese soup dumplings hit the spot!! Also got some pan-friend ones and a side of greens stirfried in a garlicky sauce! Decided to call it an early night since I have data work I promised my boss and which I’ve been procrastinating with!

Very excited about Eddie *one of my best male friends* visiting this weekend!! He arrives tomorrow around 3pm and I was able to arrange it so I can get off work at 4 p.m. and meet him in Willie-B. Should be a fun weekend with lots of good eating (of course)!

The Schedule:

Friday- Brooklyn Brewery for pre-dinner drinking and catching up
Dinner at the Sea Thai Bistro
Bar Hopping

Saturday- Bus Tour of Manhattan and wandering the streets
Brunch at Essex or Lunch at Momofuku
Tapas Dinner at Pintxos
(More drinking?)

So will update you on the weekend festivities next week. Now I'm off to do my data work!

Thursday, November 10, 2005

(almost) too exhausted to blog

So I have a new work schedule that is leaving me exhausted!!! On Mondays, Tuesdays, and Saturdays I commute 2 hours each way to Long Island to work at the florist. Wednesdays through Fridays I do as much temping as possible.

Thus far, I’ve loved working at the florist. The people that work there are really nice and fun and the work environment, though I’m sure can get quite hectic and stressful, is pretty laid back and casual. On Monday, the store manager showed me the basics on plant/flower care, upkeep of the shop, etc. On Tuesday, I was able to even do my first flower arrangement in a basket. It’s not much, but I had a wonderful time doing it and the owner liked it because it’s non-traditional.



Luckily both days were relatively slow so there was more time to train me. Nevertheless, because I spend 8 hours on my feet and then 4 hours on public transport, by the time I get home, I’m just starving and plum work out. Luckily on Monday the roommie helped me cook dinner. . but Tuesday was a sad day when I just ate white rice with dried pork and some cheese left over from the party.

Perhaps taking pity on my long commutes, the owner drove me to the train station on Monday and picked me up from it Tuesday morning. He was generous enough to drive me all the way to the LES Tuesday night after the store closed early. As usual, we had interesting conversations. On Tuesday morning he grilled me on what my weaknesses were. I didn’t have a ready response- left me thinking about it for the rest of the day. Then we talked about politics and animosity between the Japanese and Chinese. He’s Japanese married to a Chinese woman so it was interesting to hear about his personal experience with discrimination. We also talked about business, how women are more attractive after age 30 (supposedly then they are worthwhile to talk to? Less shallow ), about principles, etc. Definitely a hell of a lot more interesting than riding the train/subway by myself zoning out to my iPod.

Wednesday was a mindless day of helping the real estate investment company prepare for a mass mailing. Today and tomorrow will be more of the same. Mostly I just go into autopilot, which is good because lately I’ve been sleep deprived and my brain hasn’t been functioning as well.

After work I’ll grab some pan-fried dumplings with R and possibly drinks with an old college friend, her husband, and his law school friends.

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

Busy Weekend

Saturday night Q2 and I threw a wine and cheese tasting party at my apartment. I spent the majority of the day getting ready for the party- picked up candles from Bed, Bath, & Beyond, bought mini pumpkins, decorative corn, crab apples, and mini pears from the farmer’s market, and hit the grocery store.

The roomie and I cleaned up the apartment and re-arranged the furniture to create a more lounge-y type space. Then I spent the better part of the day cleaning and arranging fruit, making swiss cheese bread and shrimp wrapped with prosciutto and zucchini skewers.




Q2, her boy, and his friends came over a little after 4 to help with the set-up. B did an excellent job with the cheese tray and the apartment looked great with the dozens of tealights scattered around the apartment. The turnout was pretty decent, over 20 people stuffed into the kitchen and living room. All the makings of a nice party: lots of good wine, conversation, and food. . . It was great to see some old friends again and make some new ones.

Luckily, Sunday was a lazy day. Got up late-ish and went to Teddy’s for brunch with the roomie. They have the *best* bloody mary’s by the way. Yummy breakfast of pork sausage and baked cheese grits- great hangover food but left me feeling sluggish the rest of the day. Then we walked a block over to watch the trail end of the marathon. Made me realize how much I miss training and cemented my desire to run the NY Marathon in the near future.

The rest of the afternoon I whiled away surfing the net, editing a CV, and IM’ing with friends. My roomie joked that we’ve managed to replace the t.v. with our laptops. . kinda sad but true. . .

Friday, November 04, 2005

First Day of Temping

So it’s only 11 pm and I’m exhausted! I had my first ever temp job today, essentially what amounted to a data entry/internet research job. Mindless typing for 8 hours straight!!! But hey, money is money, right?

After work, btw, it did feel good to be working again, I met up with VK in Brooklyn for dinner. . went to Tacu Tacu which I expected to be a Mexican or Latin American restaurant but winded up being some sort of strange Latin American/Asian fusion. . the dishes were hit or miss. VK’s Saigon Salmon was pretty tasty but my red snapper was not so great. Kind of disappointing. But I guess the only way to discover good restaurants is through trial and error.

Tomorrow will be temping again at the same place. Hopefully I canl finish the job that I started on today. It isn’t too bad really, easy mindless work, I just let my mind coast while I was typing away. . . But it would be really sad to have a job like that for life. . ugh. . but it’s a means to an end.

A reader asked what I’m doing with my life. . afterall, I was on the path to a phD in Economics and now I’m talking about floral design jobs and temping!! Well, I decided that at the end of the day and personally speaking, it’s important for me to find a career that I look forward to every day and that I’m passionate about. . and honestly, I just couldn’t see that happening with my previous career path. Now, I’m just trying to find and pursue my passion. And while it’s not always glamorous or fun and sometimes it’s damn scary, I’m so much happier now that I have been in the past three years.

I’ve gotten a lot of comments about how brave (or crazy) my life changes have been, but really I’ve just been following my heart and instincts. Simply I wasn’t happen with where my life was going and I realized that all I had to do to change it was to just go for it.

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

scary movie

Last night the roomie and I went to the Halloween Parade in the village. We left the apartment a little before 8 pm and walked around a bit until we found some wooden street dividers. A bunch of people were already standing on top of them but I was able to sneak my way onto the edge of one (good thing I’m small!).

From there, I was able to get a pretty good view of the parade. . it was the most amazing parade I’ve ever seen. There was a great vibe in the air, 90% of the onlookers were dressed up in various costumes, and the parade seemed to go on and on. In addition to the normal slutty (put whatever character/career that you can think of) costumes there were some imaginative ones as well. My favorite was probably the Mona Lisa with frame and everything.

After watching for an hour, we decided to head back to Williamsburg and rent a movie. For those that know me well, I can be indecisive at times (I like to think of it as being laid back) but paired with my equally indecisive roommate, it took us over half an hour to pick a movie. We ended up watching Ringu which was pretty good. I will be the first one to admit that I am a scaredy cat so needless to say, watching horror movies is a rare occasion for me.
This morning, I went to another temp agency and went through the whole testing/interview process again. . hopefully something will turn up soon. The rest of the afternoon I’ll be surfing the net for jobs, making a menu for dinner I’m cooking for George and the roomie tomorrow night, and maybe making a quick trip to Tops.

happy halloween

I was able to drag my butt kinda late out of bed Saturday morning. I went into the city to get the remaining parts of my costume- black gloves and some black plastic bracelets. I found them at Claire’s near Union Square.

By the time I got back to my apartment, it was time to start getting ready. I turned on my i-tunes and started blasting the Immaculate Conception to get into character. Did the smoky eye, red lips, drew a mole above my lips. After pinning my hair up in braids, I put the rest of my costume in a bag and headed over to Q2’s. I finished getting dressed there and then it was time to meet up with the rest of the group for dinner at Havana.



It was a large group of people, around 20, turns out it was a half Halloween half birthday celebration for T’s cousin. A young group averaging in at 24, I had difficulty relating to most of them. . . but I threw back some mojitos and did my best to make small talk. Dinner was decent, certainly not the best or most authentic Cuban food I have had. . but it was in a convenient location. Perhaps because of the long wait for the food, the relaxing music, and too heavy food I was feeling more ready for a nap than to go party it up.

Nonetheless, after finishing up dinner, we braved the blistering cold and headed to Roseland. Once we were finally let inside, it was incredible, certainly the most Asian people I’ve ever seen dressed up in various costumes. . of course, most of the girls went as “sexy” versions of everything under the sun and guys had a pretty typical array of costumes. . perhaps the most memorable was the delivery guy with a package literally attached to the front of his pants. . got a good chuckle over that.

The music eventually got better and our group started dancing. But by 1 a.m., Q2 and I were ready to call it a night. All in all, a fun Halloween, but I must say the process of getting in costume and the anticipation of the party was better than the actual thing. Maybe I’m too old for this sorta thing afterall.
madonna

Friday, October 28, 2005

career blazers

After a week of dragging my feet, I finally went to a temp agency. Career Blazers is on 5th Avenue, close to Bryant Park.

I arrived a few minutes early for my interview and started filling out paperwork. Next was a series of tests, primarily basic computer skills and typing. . .turns out I can type at 80 WPM (84 with mistakes), guess that that typing class in high school really paid off, and overall I scored above the 90th percentile for all the tests.

Then it was time to meet with Gallo. Rather than an interview, she primarily asked me questions regarding what I was looking for work-wise, what my flexibility was, and what other skills I have. Perhaps it was her job to be, but she seemed fairly optimistic that I would be able to find something quickly and easily. I explained that I was in transition from school to work and was open towards working in different industries and jobs. She mentioned temp work for Toyota, note-taking for focus groups, and some publishing houses.

At this point, I just need to start making money and feel productive again.

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

more birthday celebrations

Last night I had a bigger birthday celebration. I met up with VK for drinks at Bua, a really chill bar, completely unpretentious and a great place to grab a drink or two. Then, we met up with the rest of the group at Hip Hop Chow for dinner. It’s a funky place that mixes Chinatown tackiness, a hip vibe, and good ol soul food.

http://www.hiphopchow.com/

Being unabashedly from the south, I was delighted to find a place in New York where I can get my fix of fried chicken, collard greens, mac n cheese, and cornbread. It was all quite delicious and I’m making plans to try some of the soul restaurants in Harlem too.

After dinner, four of us headed to bOb on Eldridge for a bit of dancing. . . it started off being pretty empty but after an hour or so the place livened up. The venue was pretty small and intimate and I had lots of fun dancing to decent hip hop music.

1st Birthday in New York

Today was a beautiful day. One of my dearest friends from LA came to visit me. She got to my place around 11 p.m. Monday night and is staying until Wednesday morning. It is nice to have some “girl time” and we did just that, staying up til the wee hours catching up on one another’s lives, clothing and earring shopping, etc.

Tuesday, we spent the majority of the afternoon at Century 21 and I scored on a piece for my “Madonna” Halloween costume and some cool jeans, cords, and turtleneck. The cashier double-charged me for an item which I didn’t discover until we had made it to the subway station. But in the end I was able to get my refund and conflict was avoided. Next we stopped at a cozy, cafĂ© with a fireplace to have coffee with my friend’s younger sister. After chatting for an hour or two, we made our way to West 4th street and did some earring shopping. Happened across a great boutique called Jungle Planet where they have some beautiful and unique jewelry. The owner who is from South Africa was fabulous and made the shopping experience quite enjoyable.

Around 7pm, we met up with the roomie at Momofuku for some ramen which was followed by dessert at a nearby Italian restaurant. . .during dinner, my friend asked me what was my favorite birthday. And I honestly answered tonight. I was surrounded by friends, my day was peppered with emails, texts, and phone calls, and I simply felt loved. Really, what more can a girl ask for?? So thanks everyone for remembering and making me feel blessed!